Sabtu, 14 November 2015

Adult hot Fall Wardrobe Essentials - Clothing - lookmybody - lookmybody

Camel Sweater -  Bay, $20.00
White Sleeveless Shirt - Dynamite, $20.00
Black Suede Skirt - Danier Leather (Thrifted)
Maroon Clutch - (Thrifted)
Fall is in full swing, so I thought it was time that I shared with you my top nine Fall clothing essentials!  I have been reaching for the following items on a weekly basis, making them a staple for wearing while running errands, going to work, or spending a night out with friends!  Please note that the items I include in this post are items that I already own, not item that I plan to buy!  I'm still staying on track with my 'No Spending Until Black Friday' rule!  Also please note that though all of my favourites come from two stores, this post is not sponsored!  These have just become my favourite two stores, and they offer great value when shopping online!



1. High Rise Leggings with Side Details - Dynamite ($32.95)

Legging With Side Details
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In my opinion, this is the perfect legging.  Its thick durable material allows it to be worn as pants, and its high rise waist with elastic detailing sucks in that tummy, giving you the perfect silhouette.  I own several of these in various colours, and I enjoy wearing them with blouses, sweaters, t-shirts, and even longer tunics and dresses for a professional yet comfortable look.

2. Suede Legging - Dynamite ($44.95)

Suede Legging
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Suede is in this season, and what better way to wear this comfy trend than by getting a soft pair of suede leggings?  Similar to the high-rise leggings, these faux-suede leggings from Dynamite are perfect for wearing on any occasion.  I pair these with oversized sweaters for a comfy yet stylish feel.  These also pair well with a plaid shirt for that boho feel.  This is also a great way to introduce new textures into your outfit, without taking too much of a risk.


3. Legging with Faux Leather Details - Dynamite ($34.95)

Legging with Faux Leather Details
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Can you tell that I've been into leggings this season?  This is yet another pair of amazing leggings from Dynamite.  These have subtle faux leather detailing on the sides, almost like a tuxedo pant.  These also pair well with blouses and oversized sweaters, and offer the perfect bit of leather for those who just aren't ready to don a pair of leather pants!

4. Jersey Swing Dress - Old Navy ($34.94)

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I wear one of these swing dresses at least once per week.  I own them in several colours from several different stores, but none are better than the ones I purchased from Old Navy.  Pair these with leggings, booties, and a blazer, sweater, or vest for the perfect dressy-casual fall outfit.  

5. Shirt Dress - Dynamite ($44.95)

Plaid Shirt Dress with Zip
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These shirt dresses from Dynamite are also a Fall clothing essential for me, as they are stylish but so comfortable!  I usually pair these with a pair of leggings and a pair of booties or boots for that dressy-casual Fall feel.  The best part?  These shirt dresses come in multiple colours, so you can rock them all season long.

6. Turtleneck Sweaters - Old Navy ($44.94)

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I love these oversized sweaters from Old Navy because they allow me to be warm and cozy, while somehow still looking pretty cute!  And since this piece transitions perfectly into Winter, it's a budget friendly purchase as well!

6. Popcorn-Stitch Sweater - Old Navy ($39.94)

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A casual day running errands shouldn't translate to a day of looking frumpy!  I pair this sweater with a scarf, some booties, and any one of the leggings mentioned previously for a chic outfit, perfect for a day on the run.

7. Open-Front Cable-Knit Cardigan - Old Navy ($54.94)
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Open front cardigans are the perfect way to turn any sleeveless or short-sleeved Summer clothing item into a Fall piece.  I wear this cardigan (and others like it) over my favourite sleeveless blouses, printed t-shirts, and dresses!  Like many other items that I'm reaching for this season, this cardigan is perfect for the Winter months as well!

8. Open Neck Blouse with Slits - Dynamite ($34.95)

Open Neck Blouse with Slits
http://www.dynamiteclothing.com/ca/open-neck-blouse-with-slits/p/100012855
I originally purchased this shirt in the summer in several colours, and I did not expect to love it a much as I do now!  This shirt looks amazing on any occasion - work, running errands, or even a dressier occasion.  Whether tucked into a skirt, left untucked over leggings, worn alone, or worn under a cardigan, this shirt is the perfect addition to any Fall wardrobe!

9. Belted Plaid Tunic with Faux Leather - Dynamite ($39.95)

Belted Plaid Tunic with Faux Leather
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 Up until I purchased this shirt, I HATED plaid.  It didn't matter how beautiful the colours of the shirt were, if it was plaid, I hated it.  I think it had something to do with the fact that all the plaid shirts I saw were so boxy and unshapely.  But I purchased this shirt on a whim, and I haven't regretted it!  The cinching at the waist is beautiful, and the material is super soft.  I wear this shirt (and the others I now own just like it) similarly to how it is shown above - leggings and booties!

Well, that's all I have for my Fall essentials.  I hope this gave you all inspiration for your own Fall wardrobes!

Cheers to the best season of the year!

xoxo, Jayy

Kamis, 12 November 2015

Adult hot Why My Last Closet Purge Failed. Miserably. - lookmybody - lookmybody

About two months ago, I purged my closet.  I got rid of two jumbo garbage bags full of clothes, shoes, and accessories that I didn't wear/like/need/fit into.  For the first time since we moved into this house, I had empty space in my closet and dresser drawers.

Space that used to be full of stuff ...

Space that appeared suddenly (over the course of my two weekend purge) ...

Space that I was not used to ...

Space that over the course of two months slowly filled back up as I made small purchases here and there.

And now I have no more space.

And after I did some self-reflection, I have realized why my sudden move towards minimalist living did not work for me.

1. I purge quickly, but collect slowly.  When I clean out my closet, I get rid of large amounts of clothing at a time, causing me to feel as though I deserve to buy a few items here and there to "reward myself".  However these little purchases pile up over time, and before I realize it, I've replaced everything I've gotten rid of (and then some).  The solution? I'm going to purge slowly, and allow myself to slowly adjust to the reality of owning less.  That way it's not a shock, and I'm able to ease myself into a simpler lifestyle.

2. I let purchases AND laundry pile up.  When you have a pile of laundry sitting out for several days, or you have new purchases that haven't been put away, it's easy to overestimate the space you actually have.  The solution? When I get a load of clean laundry, or in the rare event that I buy something new, I'll be putting it away ASAP so I don't make the mistake of thinking that I have a lot of empty space.

3. I spend too much time browsing fashion online.  If you spend long enough on a fashion blogger's page (or Pinterest for that matter), you'll be tempted to shop, especially if that blogger adds "helpful" links to the items that they're wearing.  It's even worse when watching fashion videos on YouTube - seeing clothing in a try-on haul is great if you want to know how something will fit you, but terrible if you're on a spending diet.  Living vicariously through someone else online may work great for some people, but that's a habit I'm about to break.  The solution?  Instead of spending my time online, I'm going to find new ways to spend it - with friends, with family, or with a cup of tea and a good book.

4. My sense of style is changing.  I used to love vintage clothing, and I was a sucker for things that were flowy or frilly.  For some unknown reason, I also used to be dead set on having a colourful wardrobe, meaning I wanted articles of clothing in every colour of the rainbow.  I now prefer simpler, more durable items of clothing, and I prefer them in dark or neutral tones.  Even though I purged and got rid of a lot, I hung on to many things that I don't plan on wearing ever again.  The solution?  As I slowly purge, I'll be getting rid of those things that I won't wear again.

5. I'm never going to be a "true" minimalist.  One day, I will have a refined wardrobe with only items that I wear (and love).  But I will never be that person with a 33 item capsule wardrobe.  Actually, I don't plan to ever have a capsule wardrobe at all.  While I want to simplify my life, I don't plan to do a complete 180.  The solution?  Who knows, maybe I will change further down the line.  But for now, I'm going to focus on simplifying my life, rather than minimalizing my possessions.

Hope this post helped someone else out there who's struggling to make the move towards minimalist!

Cheers to simplicity!

xoxo, Jayy